The victim no longer believes they know what's real, so they adopt the reality of the abuser, giving the narcissus full control.
受害者不再相信们知道什么是真实的,所以们接受了施虐者的现实,让自恋者完全控制。
Monsignor Montanelli, coming out to wish the people " Good-morning, " was at once surrounded by a clamourous throng of children, holding up for his acceptance great bunches of irises and scarlet poppies and sweet white narcissus from the mountain slopes.
Monsignor Montanelli 出来向人们道“早安”,立刻被一群喧闹的孩子包围,们举起大束的鸢尾花、猩红的罂粟花和山坡上的甜白水仙花,让接受。