If one is the person who is ending the relationship – if you are the person who is telling your boyfriend or girlfriend " sorry, see you later, " then we don't normally use the word " jilt" .
如果一个人是要结束这段关系的人——如果你是对你的男朋友或女朋友说“对不起,回头见”的人,那么我们通常不会使用“抛弃”这个词。