Alongside the shame, there was a jolting bafflement.

人们在羞耻之余，还深感困惑。

It's also where we express our bafflement at some of the behavior we encounter in the dating scene.

约会时遇行为我们感觉困惑，也会在这里表达。

In those early immigrant days, my mother, brother and I lived in a perpetual state of wonder and bafflement.

在早期移民的日子里，我母亲、哥哥永远生活在一种纳闷与困惑中。

Let's try that faster Having gradually but inevitably or without fail Slowly but surely to cause feelings of discouragement or bafflement.

让我们更快地尝试 慢慢地但不地或没有失败 慢慢地但肯定会引起沮丧或困惑的感觉。

We call it the " Hinge Debrief, " and it's where we talk about who we're messaging, who we're going on dates with, It's also where we express our bafflement at some of the behavior we encounter in the dating scene.

爱情：我们称之为“Hinge Debrief”，这是我们谈论我们正在向谁发送消息，我们将要与谁约会的地方，也是我们表达我们对约会场景中遇的一行为的困惑的地方.

I always felt a little bit guilty about it, like, " Why the hell are these people spending so much money on me when all I'm doing is pushing around bits of paper? " It was a source of continual bafflement.

我总是对此感有内疚，就像，“为什么这人要花那么多钱在我身上，而我所做的只是推着几张纸？”这一直让我感困惑。